Japan¡¯s road to gender parity is rocky and potholed. Aera magazine this month chronicles a stumbling, faltering journey.

A young father takes a month¡¯s paternity leave. A day care center staff member greets him warily: ¡°We usually deal with the mother.¡±

¡°Yes,¡± says the father, ¡°but I¡¯m looking after the child now.¡±